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The mythical G- Spot: Finding and exploiting it
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Subject: Re: G wiz (aka g-spot aka Grafenberg spot)
Status: R
G wiz aka g-spot aka Grafenberg spot
If you believe this need posting, feel free.
Summary:
1) The g-spot exists in all women.
2) sensitivity varies.
3) Reaction/interpretation/openess varies.
G-spot IS female analog to prostate. It really does exist.
The road map (can by used by a man/woman with a woman partner or
a woman on herself).
Start from the pubic bone, it is the bone running across the
lower end of the abdominal region -- between the thighs and
a little above the clitoris and labia. The g-spot is behind
this bone -- so you need to find a way around to the other side.
Fortunately, there is an alternate approach in women -- up the
vagina. The walls of the vagina are somewhat wrinkly, a testimony
to how much the vagina can stretch (say to the size of a babies
head). On the forward surface there is a smoother patch in about
2 knuckles (1.5-3 inches, 3.5-7 cm.). If a woman was to lay her
palm on to of her clitoris and curl a finger (or fingers) in to
the vagina in to a loose clench, the tips would be in the right
region. The g-spot is buried under some layers of tissue so it
may take some pressure to stimulate this area.
Repeating some general hints.
Arousal of the g-spot is usually more effective if the
woman is already sexully arroused.
Sharp or long nails are probably a no-no.
Some pressure may be necessary. Two fingers are usually
employeed -- esp. since few people use mechanical
typewriters (which would give fingers strength and endurance).
Initial sensations in thewoman may be a) discomfort, an urge
to urinate (the urethra from the bladder is being stimulated),
or a pleasurable sensation.
As stimulation contintues (few minutes), the g-spot will begin
to swell. "Continued stimulation of the area _may_ result in
an orgasm that is often quite intense." [see above regarding
being sexually aroused --first. No arrousal -- no orgasm].
Ejaculation is possible, but the fluid is different from
vaginal secretions and from urine.
This does not work for all women. Discuss with your intimates.
Compare notes.
For some women, this area may receive stimulus in penile-vaginal
intercourse given the right angles. Rear entry ("doggie style")
may facilitate penile pressure in this region.
If the partner you are playing with is a man, you can try for a similar
effect on his prostate entering through his anus -- Long or sharp nails
are a big NO-NO. You might want to use glove or condom over fingers. I
should not need to say: DO NOT allow fecal material on or around woman's
vagina.
Note this can actually cause an ejaculation from a man without orgasm or
an intense orgasm or something in between or nothing at all.
PLEASE:
Practice safe sex. No exchange of bodily fluids -- blood, feces (which
may contain blood), semen, or female ejaculum; unless you both have been
monogamous ....
--
roger [email protected] <-- me
or (213)653-1123 <-- L. A. Sex Info. Line
Monday - Thur. 3:30 - 9:30 P D/S T
(esp. for _The G-SPOT_ book info.
I don't remember the author)
hydra.jpl.nasa.gov == 128.149.1.137 or 128.149.46.10
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Date: Sat, 4 Aug 1990 9:41:19 PDT
From: Eric Michals <lesatz%[email protected]>
To: durway, [email protected]
Cc: brent%[email protected], [email protected],
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Subject: g-spot manual requests
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Status: R
ok, I got a copy of this thing from two different people, and it was
the same manual, so I guess this is the authentic one after all.
I also received an interesting letter from a girl in California that
claimed she had written the g-spot manual. I would leave her address,
but she probably wouldn't like that so if you wa
nt it, drop me a noteand I'll give it to ya.
Well, good luck finding it! I know I'll be having some fun tonight!
Eric
Okay, I've found G-spots in three women of my acquaintance. Two of them were
completely delighted with the discovery, and the other one wasn't real
crazy about it no matter what. Chacun a son gou. It took some time and
patience for one of the delighted ones, but the other delighted one reckoned
that she'd hit it by accident a few times and just not known what happened.
She responded immediately, and with gusto.
Now I guess it's time for sex-ed 101, so listen up all of you who have a sexual
interest in female anatomy. The rest of you probably ought to hit 'n' now.
7 will get you 2 that not a single netter hit 'n'. Well, let's start with a
nice juicy diagram. You'll have to bear with my ability to render in
ASCII. In an ideal world I'd sit one of the secretaries on top of the fax
machine, but, sadly, we are restricted to text here.
If you have access to ######### These hashes are supposed
a set of female genitals ####### to be pubic hair covering
I'd suggest that you ##### the pudendum.
compare them with this ###
schematic. Single females
might like to use a mirror /U\ U is the clitoris
(or two) to verify that /' . `\ . is the urethra
they're set up like this. /' _ `\ The rest of the characters
I should probably say { | / \ | } are supposed to be the outer
that this is intended to { ` \ / ' } lips (labia majora), the inner
represent a view of the \ ` ~ ' / lips (labia minora), and the
genitals with legs spread, \ ` ' / vagina (or is that vulva?)
looking up through the torso ~|~
as if the woman were a O O is the anus
telescope.
So much for the funny latin words. I ought to admit my ignorance as to
whether the vulva is the opening of the vagina or the vagina is the opening
of the vulva, but I trust you'll take my meaning anyway.
For those who never had a close look before and are a bit worried, I ought to
say that, except when quite sincerely aroused, female genitals are usually not
this clearly set out. The clitoris likes to hide under it's own little
hood, the lips stick pretty close to one another, and it is quite likely that
if the owner of the genitals is standing up and unaroused you won't really see
more than some enticing tufts of hair and maybe the outer lips. Folks whose
knowledge of these matters derives mainly from Playboy pictorials may be quite
surprised that there's more here than 'just a hole'.
Traditionally it was thought that all of the sensation available from the
female genitals derived from the lips, entrance to the vagina, and especially
the clitoris. In other words, what you see above. It was thought that the
interior of the vagina was practically numb to sexual sensation.
Now one of those old coots who spent the seventies sticking their noses into
other people's intimate businesses was a guy called Grafenberg, if memory
serves. Dr G. had this theory that there was an area within the vagina, which
was called the Grafenberg spot or G spot, which not only was sexually sensitive
but which could trigger bigger and better female orgasms than the clit and the
exterior bits could by themselves.
Now the trouble with Dr G.'s claim was that not everyone seemed to be able to
find this spot, which he reckoned was analogous with the male prostate gland,
and those that did find it didn't necessarily like it much, and so there was
some controversy, especially in the popular press. A number of folks who did
find it and did like it eventually sussed out the mechanics of the spot, and
over the last few years there've been a number of quite good books about it.
The story is basically this: The G-spot is a flat area about as big as a one or
two cent piece, about two inches inside the vagina. It's just behind the pubic
bone, on the vaginal wall that is closest to the belly-button. You can reach it
with your index finger. If the genitals you're playing with are not very
aroused then you might have difficulty finding it, or it might not feel very
interesting or nice to the owner.
The trick is to make those genitals very aroused, and then have a go at the
G-spot. The best way is probably cunnilingus, which is latin for having a
lick, but any technique that provides good stimulation of the clitoris
will do for starters.
Now bear in mind that I'm skipping over a lot here. I strongly recommend
a good deal of foreplay before diving into a woman's muff, like at least
half an hour, and longer if you like. If you can manage dinner and a good
bath beforehand, even better. Actually, I reckon that a bath or a shower
before sex is a reasonably good idea anyway, because we're dealing with
equipment that can be quite off-putting if it's on the nose when it's on
the nose, if you take my meaning. Besides, bathing is fun.
So, presuming that your woman is content with the preliminaries and you're
going hunting, you're going to have to begin by relaxing. Softly Softly
Catchee Monkey. If you're so pent up that slamming your dick in the door
has a pleasurable side to it (sorry feminists, I'm not certain what the
female equivalent to that state is) then forget all this until you've had
a bloody good rogering or two.
Once you've acheived a state of patient interest, slowly start to stimulate
the clitoris. You've got to be really careful here, because clitori are
damned sensitive little beggars, and too much of a good thing is not
really a good thing at all. Also, different clitori like different things.
Some like quite direct stimulation, some prefer one side or the other, others
are so sensitive that they like you to mainly stick to the clitoral hood or
the labia. Some like a circular motion, and others like to be lightly flicked
back and forth. The best way to find out what your clitoris likes is to ask
it's owner, and if she doesn't know then do some experimentation. That's fun
too, so don't get pissed off if it takes a little while to figure out what's
good for you.
As I said, my preferred method is cunnilingus, but if the owner of your
clitoris doesn't like that for some reason ("no, my dear, it's not
germy and it does taste rather nice") then you'll have to use your fingers.
I find that the best thing for clitori is a nice regular stroke, with
regular exotic interludes. Basically it's the same thing as for penises -
you don't want all sorts of unpredictable jerking around, and you don't
want to feel like it's caught in a vise, and you don't want it to feel like
it's attached to a reciprocating engine going at 5000 revs. Take it easy.
If the owner of your clitoris wants more stimulation you'll notice her
writhing around and pushing it at you. If she wants less then she'll
draw away. If it's just right then she'll sit where she is and enjoy it.
Pay attention to what she does.
So, you've got a nice regular stroke going - say, seven strokes and then
something exotic, and then another seven strokes and another something
exotic. Of course the G spot is in the vagina, and you're going to
have to know what's going on in there if you're going to find it and
do something with it. Slowly insert a finger or two. Don't grab, because
that can be rude and distracting.
Now hopefully the vagina that you're dealing with is well lubricated, but
that won't necessarily be the case. If you spend a long time at this even
the juiciest woman can start to dry out, so it never hurts to have a little
lubricant handy, just in case. I'd recommend K-Y jelly, which you should
be able to find at any chemist, but there are lots of alternatives. One
that I wouldn't recommend is vaseline - too thick. Another is baby oil -
too thin, and besides we should conserve the babies :-)
You can entertain yourself by running your finger around the inside of the
vagina, trying to discern its shape. Unless your female is coming (having
an orgasm), you should probably find that the vagina is reasonably
form-fitting, although some are tighter than others. If your female is
not coming or consciously causing contractions you'll probably find that
the vagina isn't doing anything in particular, just sitting there and
producing lubricant. If you bring your finger to the front wall of the
vagina then you'll find it less yielding than the rest, because there is a
bone in front of it called the pubic bone, part of the pelvis. If you feel
along this unyielding section or just beyond you may find a slightly raised
area. This is the G spot. It might not be raised, but it will engorge once
your female starts to come.
Don't poke this spot yet. Don't do anything with it, yet. At best you
won't have any effect, and at worst you'll be distracting. You've got
to wait for your female to start to come. Now this might happen in thirty
seconds, or it might take an hour, and you've just got to be patient
and keep things regular and smooth. You'll be able to tell your woman is
coming when:
- she tells you
- she moans one hell of a lot and her breathing changes
- she flushes, over her face, neck and/or chest
- her vagina begins to flutter rhythmically around your finger
You may see all of these things, or you may see none of them. If you miss
an orgasm, don't stop unless you or she wants to. Women have startling
recuperative powers, particularly when they're receiving the right level
of attention, and generosity is its own reward. Multiple orgasms are
not mythical.
Once you believe that your woman is coming you should shift your attention
from the clitoris to the G spot. Keep up the same rhythm, but use more
pressure. You may want to keep some sort of contact with the clitoris, but
just as a penis becomes supersensitive during orgasm, to the point of
discomfort, so can a clit.
As with the clitoris, you should pay attention to whether the woman pushes
towards you, draws away from you or just sits there to gauge the amount of
pressure you're giving. You probably won't need to vary your speed much, but
pay attention to what she says she wants.
Now as you go at the G spot you'll find that your woman keeps coming for
longer than you've seen before. You may even experience that most startling
of sexual phenomena, a female ejaculation. I've seen three of these (actually
I got a mouthful), but I can't say whether the fluid comes from the vagina
or the urethra. It's quite nice, sort of like salad dressing. It's
definitely not urine, and it is probably polite and hopefully reciprocal to
swallow it.
Keep going at that G spot. Eventually you will feel the vagina draw away
from your finger - it becomes bigger and the walls get taut, and not
form-fitting, sort of like a little cave. When it does this it's time
to switch back to the clitoris. Keep up the same rhythm. When the vagina
begins to contract on your finger again, go back to the G spot.
If you keep this up for a while (and if the owner of your female genitals
wants to stop, then stop - this isn't a competition), you'll find that
the nature of the vaginal contractions changes. The cave effect becomes
less and less frequent and you can spend more and more time with the
G spot. Also, the contractions in the vagina become less simple squeezing
and fluttering, and more a sort of reverse swallowing - a contraction that
starts deep within the vagina and travels to its entrance. It feels a
bit like the vagina is trying to push your finger out. Eventually (may take
hours and patience and many tries) you've got nothing but these push-out
contractions, and you can go on as long as the owner of the genitals
wants to, and your tongue and fingers don't wear out. If you go on this
long you're almost certainly going to need some extra lubricant, so be
prepared.
There you have it. At least in my experience, women can have orgasms
that last orders of magitude longer and seem to be much better than those
that men can have. I guess I better add a disclaimer that all of this is
only one man's experience, and I could be completely wrong about the
female genitals that you have. I'm not certain there is such a thing
as device independance where sexual equipment is concerned. I don't think
that any of the things I've advocated can do you any harm, but see your
doctor if you've doubts. The main thing is to have fun. Happy fucking.
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